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Saturday, 13 December 2025

DAY THIRTEEN | A SECRET BLOGMAS 2025

“I think one of life’s great milestones is when a person can look back and be almost as thankful for the setbacks as for the victories.”

Bob Dole

Welcome to A Secret Blogmas 2025!

Today is Day Thirteen and this thirteenth post is all about the beneficial impact there is if you – as a content creator – celebrate the milestones in your content creation. In this post, I’ll be looking at exactly what is meant by a ‘milestone’ for content creators, why they’re important, and how to celebrate them publicly. I’ll also be chatting about my own milestones and how and why I have celebrated them publicly too. Keep reading to find out why and how publicly celebrating your content creation milestones can impact the success and popularity of your content and/or your platform…

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Sunday, 7 December 2025

DAY SEVEN | A SECRET BLOGMAS 2025

“So much can be achieved when ideas are created, and people come together to bring them to life.”

Paddington Mbumbgwa

Welcome to A Secret Blogmas 2025!

Today is Day Seven and this seventh post is all about the benefits and sense of achievement you can receive or experience from a successful collaboration in your content creation career. The post will look at the fact everyone can have a different definition or understanding of both ‘successes and ‘achievement’ and I’ll discuss how much this can matter in content collaborations. Keep reading to find out why and how collaborations can impact the success and popularity of your content and/or your platform…

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Sunday, 12 February 2023

TO ME, FROM ME | VALENTINES GIFT GUIDE & A WISHLIST | HAPPY VALENTINES DAY 2023 | IN COLLABORATION WITH AMAZON UK

In previous Valentines Days on I’m NOT Disordered, I’ve talked about the importance of loving yourself and how trauma can affect that, appreciating your friends, and even being comforted by the love for your pets(!), so I felt as though there wasn’t a whole lot of other angles for this year’s Valentines Day post… I finally decided, however, to collaborate with Amazon UK and put together this little gift guide – with the hope and intention of you using it to focus on buying yourself a little something! – for people with a whole variety of interests, and then there’ll be a Wishlist at the end of all my dream gifts…

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Thursday, 6 January 2022

NINE REASONS TO CELEBRATE | HAPPY NINTH BIRTHDAY, I’M NOT DISORDERED

Having made a suicide attempt that landed me on life support during the first year of I’m NOT Disordered, it wasn’t just about psychologically not being able to imagine my blog to still be going nine years later! So, excuse me while I try to recognise, accept, and celebrate the fact that I’ve now been blogging for NINE YEARS!

One of my most popular blog posts for my own Birthday was when I talked about all the reasons why I was grateful I’d made it to that age; so, I thought I’d do something a bit similar in using this occasion as an opportunity to talk about all the reasons why I’m celebrating …

1.       ALL THE LESSONS LEARNT

Being a ‘look-on-the-bright-side’ kind of person, where I’ve made – what some people may deem to be – mistakes in my blogging career and decisions around my blog; I try to view them as learning curves. It means that rather than be upset and tackling feelings of regret, I feel productive and positive instead!

When I first created, I’m NOT Disordered in 2013, there were really only three well-known mental health blogs out there and none of them were written by a psychiatric hospital inpatient. Whilst, on the plus side, this meant I had instantly and accidentally found a niche for my blog (something which becomes increasingly more and more difficult with the overly saturated blog industry); it also meant that I had no real template for what I was doing. I had no one I could really look to as a guide or a blog to look to as a model and a goal.

Again, looking at the positives; whilst this absence of a traditional/predictable inspiration left me feeling alone a lot, it also meant there was no real pressure in those early years of my blogging career. And experiencing any sort of strain when you first start blogging can have a massive influence on whether you continue. So not feeling the need to ‘keep up’ with everyone else or to ‘be better’ than other bloggers, really allowed me the time to find my footing by myself and really learn and develop everything I want I’m NOT Disordered to represent, the content I want it to be a home to, and the reputation I want it to have.

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Thursday, 4 November 2021

CELEBRATING ONE MILLION READERS!!!

Having been a Blogger for almost nine years, you’d think I would never run out of words – that I would never become speechless. And I think this should be especially true considering I’m a mental health Blogger, which is arguably the most challenging topic to communicate to others effectively enough to stir compassion and empathy. However, seeing that I’m NOT Disordered has reached over one million readers?!

As with a lot of the milestones I’ve celebrated over the years of my blog, I wanted to use reaching one million readers in a way that would help others. I think it’d be fair to say that usually, my means for helping others has meant advising readers on ways to safely manage their mental health or how to navigate upsetting situations. So this time, I wanted to do it a little bit differently, and considered all the occasions, situations, and stages I wish I’d been advised on during my own blogging career…

NEW BLOGGERS:

The most obvious and first step to advise on, are for the early days of your blog… When I created I’m NOT Disordered in 2013, there were three well-known mental health blogs – one by an ex-service user, one by a psychiatric nurse, and one by a Police Officer who was really passionate and interested in mental health law. 

Whilst this meant that there was a niche for a blog written by a psychiatric hospital inpatient (as I was then), it also meant I had no one to turn to for relevant and actually experienced advice and guidance. And the absence of this meant I got a very terrified and intimidated feeling that almost filled me with a sense that I had to learn things the ‘hard way.’

1.     Don’t be embarrassed to read/watch online tutorials

2.     Utilise hashtags on social media to connect with other Bloggers

3.     Trust your heart as well as your head – don’t second guess yourself

4.     Consider pros and cons to keep your worrying productive and reasonable

5.     Never stop being yourself – no matter how different that may be

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